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Being Self Centered

IMAG0267Funny, but I think I am sometimes TOO logical. I always always like to plan. I like to think ahead and consider all options and scenarios and work around everyone who is involved in whatever it is I am preparing for. This could be anything from a vacation to a simple dinner. No matter what it may be, I like to be considerate and flexible and think it all through. I want to consider everyone’s needs, likes, and dislikes. I am certain that not everyone in this world ever does this. Some of you do, some not. When I am looking at the big picture I realize it is not “all about me,” but everyone involved and sometimes only one person or situation. Every scenario is different and not always goes as planned and I am also very flexible and can go with the flow. Some people cannot and I even try to put that into perspective. But, no matter how hard I try, there are still those people who can only see just to the tip of their nose. It is always, and I mean always, about them. No matter what the situation, somehow it always comes back to being about them. Please tell me why this is this way with some and how to work around it? I have tried over and over but with certain people it seems to always revolve around them and only them and their needs. Everyone else is unimportant. No worries, I think I am a better person for how I am and how I handle these situations. I just want others to know or help me feel that I am not alone.