There are a few things in life I am proud of. It goes without saying or so I think that my book, “Everythings Okay”, is one of the most accomplished things I have ever done. Along with that, giving birth to my son and surviving with a positive, giving attitude for all I have been through also make me proud. Now that I put a bit of thought into it, I am the most proud of being with my husband and having a successful relationship for as many years as I can remember. We met roughly 35 years ago. We have been married close to 33 years. Honestly, we have been through our share of ups and downs, we are both human beings. What I think I want to stress to everyone, is although every day is not blissful, we are best friends, enjoy each others company, always, always there for each other and are considerate to each others needs, interests, and individual interests as well. Marriage, or a relationship in general, is “work,” in that I mean it is not always going to go the way you think it should. Be able to see the bigger picture. Think it through before you decide to act on something and remember, trust and honesty is the only way. Don’t throw in the towel since something did not go your way, sleep on it, think about it. Is it really worth fighting over or leaving? Don’t give up for something trivial, work on it to make it work. Give to receive. It’s a 50/50 deal. As a couple you are now a unit, a work in progress. 
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