Unfortunately, in 2012 we were given so many opportunities to take a look at our own lives and be thankful for what we have, all as a result of someone else’s traumatic event. Most recently, the Sandy Hook school shooting or the Colorado movie theatre shooting were two major events that made me reflect on my life.
For some, the reminder of losing a child or loved one is never as poignant as when these tragedies occur. For those who are dealing with a cancer diagnosis, they run through such a range of emotions that are often brought to the surface when someone else is dealing with a tragedy. Personally, I thought about myself and my past hospital experiences. Although my situation was completely different from those who were victimized, being a patient for long term care is the same for us all. I learned to adapt to my “new way of life” while recovering from all my surgeries and appreciate how hard the whole hospital staff works. They are concerned about our every need, as well as the many other patients they have. I even became friendly with the custodians who cared for my room, seeing them every day, they always had a smile on their faces and shared a few words with me. The longer you stay, the closer you are with them all. Social workers, nurses, doctors, volunteers, the people who deliver meals, the aids, and everyone else who served a role in my care were always so kind, understanding and ready to help or do for me whenever I needed anything. As a child my parents would say thank you by bringing chocolates to the “floor” for everyone to share. Sometimes we would give them some of my flowers to put out at the desks to share with everyone. Just a small gesture to say, “We appreciate you”, can go a long way. Keep this in mind for your next stay or visit to someone who is ill. The unsung heroes who work to save us will remember you forever.
